1Stand where you want your portals to connect — in either dimension.
2Find your coordinates: press F3 on Java, or turn on Show Coordinates in settings on Bedrock.
3Type X, Y, Z into that dimension's panel — the other side updates instantly.
4Travel to the other dimension, go to the shown coordinates, and build your portal there.
X and Z are scaled — Y (height) never changes
1 block in the Nether = 8 blocks in the Overworld
Matching coordinates make portals link reliably